I’m embarrassed that the guy I’m with (kinda with) posts selfies at the gym flexing in the mirror. He isn’t a young guy. Should I just ignore it? Or?
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I’m embarrassed that the guy I’m with (kinda with) posts selfies at the gym flexing in the mirror. He isn’t a young guy. Should I just ignore it? Or?
redcarpetsquare 
I went out with a guy who wanted to take me out whilst wearing the leather jacket he bought with “Highlander” artwork emblazoned on the back. I found it so embarrassing that I started making excuses to stay in. He wanted to get married.
My husband’s name is Tom. His wasn’t.
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Lol!
The jacket would have to go!
I guess you were just waiting for Tom:-)
What would you think of the flexing selfies?
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Well… *sigh* Honestly it sounds kind of juvenile to me, and I’m the most immature person I know.
I guess I think if you are only kind of with him, and you’re already embarrassed by his behavior, then you need to take that into consideration.
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Write a blog about it and let him stumble across? 🙂
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Hmmm…maybe:-)
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It’s real simple.
Can you tolerate the behavior for one day? He’s a date.
Can you tolerate it for a month? He’s a fling.
Can you tolerate it for a year? He’s a relationship.
Can you ignore it completely and still be happy? Accept his ring.
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Thanks for sharing!
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He sounds like an idiot. Sorry.
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Lol
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Haha! I know a guy who does this at the gym, then there was another one who would keep flexing his pecks while he spoke to me, it was disconcertingly hypnotising! 😀 Now I’m not sure if it’s me, maybe I give off something to attract these guys? 😀
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Hypnotizing! Lol
He flexes one peck and says you are getting sleeeeepy then flexes the other peck. 🙂
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Hahahaha! Yeah, either that or it was his conversation 😉
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